Friends who betray you

Written by Clement Faria on August 31, 2009 under Thinking.

Friendship Betrayal

Friendship Betrayal happens when a Friend Betray, abandon or wound you.

Friendship is a very noble relationship between two persons and usually Friends help each other especially in the hour of need. But, when a friend betrays, it is really tough to cope up as it is something which you might not be expecting, more so if you have no fault of yours. It is something which hurts emotionally more than physically.

Though it is very difficult to spot out such kind of friends but some friends may be betrayers from the start; others may turn into betrayers because of what’s going on in their lives or because of changes in their personality. There are different types of Friendship Betrayers and not all of them are same. The very common one is Double-Crosserwhich will pretend to be your friend but when you are not around will change his/her personality. The less common ones are Promise Breaker, The Discloser and The competitor. Promise Breaker will not keep up the promise where as the Discloser would not be able to keep the secrets. A negative Competitor, which is a Friend, will hurt in more than one way.

Often, there are positive, wonderful friendships that are mutually beneficial to both friends that should last a lifetime. But there are other friendships that are negative, destructive, or unhealthy that should end. There is no point in dragging along a friendship when you know you are not comfortable with it. Many times, Friends don’t agree with each other. They fight and bring each other pain. But how much worse is the pain if there is a chance they may never have the time to resolve their differences?

How to Deal With Friends Who Betray:

Though it is not easy to cope up betrayal of a dear Friend but not difficult to attain. Life goes on and you make new friends. You push away your hurtful past and learn a valuable lesson from it.

One should always try to talk about it with the dear ones, Parents, siblings, and of course with other friends if possible.

• Try to keep yourself busy with the work or the hobbies.
• Also, do not stop making new Friends. If one friend has betrayed you, do not shut the door to this world.
• Most important, learn to trust your gut feelings and have confidence in yourself.

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